i was reading another blog this morning and the blogger put the results of her BDSM test on her blog. Although i have taken the test 3 times before, it reminded me to take it again. I take the test about every year to see in what ways i have changed.
Well it seems i have changed a great deal in the last year. i am, as i state in the title of this post, a submissive, bottom, slave! i ranked submissive at 100%. Y/you can’t be a bottom…a submissive, much more than that. i think this degree of change is largely due to my coming out more as a Leather “person,” meeting other Leather submissives and being around more Doms/Masters. Also, i have been reading a lot of books about Leather sex, how to be a leather boy, and about being a slave to a Master. It has intrigued me, drawing me further into the world of BDSM. My true nature IS coming out FINALLY. i love calling a Dominant, SIR! Although i mostly avert my eyes when in the presence of a Dom, if i do make eye contact with a Dom at the Leather bar i would be very happy to buy Him drinks, light His cigar, and do as He orders me — in the bar. i would try to hold back and not rush to His dungeon. i wouldn’t know Him at all really and would not have had time to vet Him to make sure He is known in the community and believes in Safe, Sane & consensual play. i have read time after time to take care and be cautious about hookups with strangers. Y/you DO want to come out alive!!
But, i digress…
my score for each archetype on the BDSM SCALE is shown below.
100% Submissive
99% Rope bunny
97% Exhibitionist
95% Degradee
95% Experimentalist
93% Slave
91% Primal (Prey)
89% Non-monogamist
86% Masochist
70% Voyeur
54% Girl/Boy
49% Brat
40% Age player
40% Pet
5% Vanilla
2% Sadist
1% Brat tame
1% Daddy/Mommy (A good reason not to call me Daddy or Papi)
1% Degrader
1% Owner
1% Primal (Hunter)
0% Dominant
0% Master/Mistress
0% Rigger
0% Switch
So, Y/you can clearly see i am a submissive with strong slave leaning tendencies. Or as W/we use to say when it was acceptable to say, “i am a BIG OLE BOTTOM!”. i just crossed the PC line with that statement and if i offended Y/you, i do apologize. However, if W/we take back that statement, get rid of the stigma and bottom shaming, we empower ourselves as bottoms and as submissives. As i have said many times, without “Big ole submissive bottoms” there could be no Tops/Doms/Masters!
To see the full color results of my test results go to http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=3408549
That will show Y/you how the test results look. After checking that out click on the View my PDF. It gives an explanation of the results and how i fared on the comparison to others who have taken the test. If Y/you do look at it Y/you will see that my results are probably skewed slightly toward being a submissive. A few percentage points lower won’t change the facts about who i am.
To take the test go to http://BDSMtest.org
Furthermore, you can view my Slave Registration number that i obtained nearly two years ago. i have been asked about the significance of having the number, and what it means to me. i suppose in actuality it has no meaning. But for me it gives me an official date of when I finally decided to begin my coming out process. It was the first time i documented my being a big ole bottom or more accurately a submissive…on paper via the Internet, and not on my back in countless bedrooms across the country. But, more than it just being a piece of paper it declares my desire to live my life as a submissive, or even a slave, in service to a Dom/Master. i have a definite date January 24, 2015, and the “proof” for a Dom that this is not new for me and that i am not playing games.
If you are interested in seeing how Y/you shake out on the Dom/submissive scale take the detailed and anonymous online test. And if you test AND feel you fall in or near the submissive/slave category you can register for a slave number at http://www.slaveregister.com
Let me know if Y/you take the test and where you fall on the spectrum of sexual kink and BDSM.
Thanks for reading,
boy stray
