Do you include service as a part of your expectations of your submission?
Yes, very much.
How do you define service?
Service is doing those mundane menial chores that Sir needs to have done to free His mind and time from thinking about His to do list and actually taking His time to run those errands. Service means anticipation of Sir’s needs to performing those tasks before He even has to think about them.
Service duties are, or should be, a part of the negotiations prior to entering into a D/s relationship. This is the time to verbalized your limits in terms of being a service oriented submissive. As i mentioned in an earlier post, i abhor housekeeping. i don’t like mopping, vacuuming, or dusting hundreds of little tchotchkes. i would negotiate for a cleaning service twice monthly to do the hard work and deep cleaning.
What does it mean to you?
Service means overtly showing your respect for your Dom by knowing what He routinely does or needs and taking care of it for Him. To me it is the essence of being a submissive.
If not, what is it about the concept of service that is not for you?