Today i will just talk about humiliation as a part of a D/s interaction or relationships. Twice, well, maybe more than that, i have put my safety in jeopardy by getting into the vehicle of an unknown Dom. But, the topic is about humiliation…both of those encounters began with my public humiliation. The first one i experienced was with a Brazilian Dom i met on a hookup site. He was a young, good looking, uncut, married (to a woman) Dom so i felt i could trust Him to be discreet.
On the day of our first meeting He ordered me to wear a tank top tee shirt, extremely short shorts, and no underwear. Also i was to tie a white ribbon around my balls and to let the end of the ribbon to hang out the bottom of my shorts. Well, the shorts i had were very short workout shorts and i always wore a jock with them. The jock greatly enhanced and displayed my bulge through the leg openings. This was the strategic marketing of my availability at the gay gym.
If that weren’t enough humiliation, the true test of my submissiveness for Him was that i was to drive to a certain coffee shop about six miles from my house, and i was to stand out front with my head bowed waiting for him to arrive. i must have stood there ten to fifteen minutes before He arrived. He then ordered me to keep my head down and not to look at Him. W/we walked into the coffee shop and sat at a table. He ordered me to move closer, He reached over and took hold of the white ribbon tugging on it a couple times. He bought U/us coffee and we left. i assumed i would follow Him to His house, but He insisted i get into his car. Briefly i thought about my safety but my dick was making decisions for me at this point.
i got into the passenger seat still averting my eyes and W/we drove off. W/we drove a short distance, then He ordered me to put a blindfold on, which i did.. Later i learned He didn’t want me to know where W/we were going or His address. He ordered me down in the seat so neighbors wouldn’t see as He drove into the garage. i followed Him into His house. Again, i thought He could kill me and no one would have a clue about my whereabouts. But i still went in.
i allowed myself to be cuffed behind my back after undressing.
Previously online He told me about a smegma fixation He has. He asked if i preferred clean or with “cheese”. i said clean. However, when He wanted a blow job all i could think about was smegma – even though He was clean. So, i began gagging and choking with the thought of unclean dick in my mouth. He said, “you are a lousy cocksucker, I’ll have to train you to be better at it.” The rest of the scenario i will not discuss simply because it was uneventful and safe. He took me back to my car and i never saw Him again. i chose not to do that again with Him!
The second encounter with public humiliation was eerily similar – can Doms not come up with an original idea for public humiliation?
In NO WAY am i encouraging you to submit to public humiliation or putting yourself in the kind of dangerous situations i describe in my post.
How many mistakes did i make during that scenario?
Always put Y/your safety first.
Humiliation can be public or private. But it must be consensual!
Although i was embarrassed each time i submitted to public humiliation, i felt i was displaying my commitment to submission for everyone to see.
Now that i am more knowledgeable about BDSM, safety, and the practice of safe, sane and consensual kink, i am less likely to consent to public humiliation, and definitely will not get in a car that can be driven anywhere potentially putting me in danger.
Thanks for reading,
Have you ever consented to public humiliation? If so, i would love to hear your story. Share with me in comments ot PM me. Thanks