Is spanking or corporal punishment a part of your submission? Why or why not?
This is not a question that affords a black or white response. There is plenty of gray area. Spanking can be fun and pleasurably painful for the submissive. Would a Dom use something like spanking to punish a sub who likes spanking? That could potentially turn the sub off to spanking scenes since it now would have a negative connotation to it. Wouldn’t it be better to either deny spanking or punish with something the sub dislikes doing or having done to them. i talked about this in a previous 30 Days post.
The punishment needs to be timely, appropriate for the infraction, something that reinforces positive behavior & adhering to the Dom’s rules, and something the sub does not enjoy in some form or another.
i did a web search for punishments and found a site: http://www.pleasepunish.me
It is fun site in that it has a button that generates a good, interesting, appropriate and new form of punishment for each infraction or mistake made by the sub. That way You don’t have to worry about what to do next time he breaks a rule, talks back, makes a mistake or embarrasses You or himself in public. There are more than enough punishments listed to use whenever you need one, but if Your sub needs that much punishment it may be time to reconsider that arrangement or relationship.
Thanks for reading,